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How to have a good relationship with parents ( A helpfull guide)

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REALISTIC WAYS OF MAINTAINING A GREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS (A helpful guide) It is generally believed that once a child becomes a teenager he becomes naturally and uncontrollably stubborn, lazy, disobedient and wanting to do everything that comes to their mind…… like my mommy usually  says “it’s a critical spirit that must be chased out”……..lol, I’ll believe that to an extent because once I clocked 13, I always wanted to be free to do anything that comes to my mind and go to places that seriously didn’t have any impact on my destiny but the true fact still remains that teens want to try new things, learn new things, have plans on their own which is really cool and great, all this activities and eagerness make them want to be free , let me cite this great illustration: “My life has been a peaceful one since when I was little, I’m naturally quiet and reserved and kind of curious, but I had one problem, which was the relationship with my dad, my dad always tol...

The Lift: 4 ways to standout from the crowd and be distinct{A MUST READ}

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LIVING  MORE THAN EXPECTATION "Back then when I was entering college, a young, happy boy going to start a new life with personally set goals. The night before I left, my dad called me and sat me down, this rarely happens but when it happens I know am in for another bible study that could take hours...lol, He called me my full name and said "Christopher, I don't have much to say, but I got 3 plans for you, one, don't bring a pregnant girl to my house, two, bring a degree of First Class Honours and lastly be the best graduating student in your set so companies will be waiting for you to work for them at the end of your schooling…..well, that was a great plan for a father who wanted the best for his son, but I had personal plans and half of this plans contradicts the third Goal he set for me, I didn't want to work for companies, no… I want companies to work for me, though I was going to one of the prestigious universities in my country and I was doing one of ...

Tested and Working : How to Stop any kind of Addiction

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HOW TO STOP ADDICTION WITH JUST 5 STEPS “I got addicted to porn at the age of 13, while in boarding house I overheard some guys in my dormitory talking about some websites that contain pornography,(I actually had heard of it but curiosity made me go further). The first time I checked I was like wow, I started from watching it once per day, to twice and then I didn’t even count again, I even went to the extent of stealing money to buy data to watch, it was then I knew I was in a real bondage which will be hard to get out from” Addiction is an habit that can’t be stopped in a day, remember it took you days even months to get use to it, For example, you didn't  learn how to write in one day, it took some pain, discipline and at times frustration comes in. Addiction can be defined by different sites, books, people or even religion but it's important to note that ONLY AN ADDICT knows what it feels like to be addicted. Some call it Disease others call it chronic disorder; wel...